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Parents - What are you thinking?

All I can say is - Parents - What are you thinking?

This exploitation of young girls is all too common across the United States. And Parents wonder why their young girls are looked at as sex objects? Where has modesty gone? We as a culture are in bad shape and parents are playing right into the trap the devil has set..... WAKE UP PARENTS!

Baby-boomers Cause Social Security Crisis in Amercia

 

Lets take a moment to think about the Social Security Crisis. Social Security was a program established to care for the elderly, a safety net. The program was designed to have "The Many" (active working people) contribute to care for "The Few" (elderly). Yet the baby-boomers participated in and promoted to such an extreme in abortion, they killed so many, that "The Many" is now too small to care for the elderly.

The average birthrate in America is 1.2 children per married couple. This is to say, for every 2 people, they are replaced by 1. How can this reproductive rate sustain a program that requires an increasing reproductive rate, yet even more importantly, how can a society sustain itself when it continues to shrink?

Abortion is a killing ideology...... it not only kills the innocent child, the woman's soul, and is killing America.

When will the world open their eyes....... The only cure is "A Culture of Life!"

Societal Collapse - Are You Ready

As I return to work after a month of vacation and disconnection from the world, I am abruptly thrust back into a reality that life isn’t as calm and peaceful as my vacation journey had been.

I immediately reconnect with the patients in the psychiatric hospital and their world of delusions, paranoia, misperceptions and fear, yet at times they see the world more clearly than most of us.

I am then barraged with information from the radio and Internet of the declining economy and approaching collapse of the America that I once knew.

I began to clearly see that the world around me is changing and changing rather quickly. Some of the people around me see the effects of the deterioration as they have their hours cut, benefits reduced, and wages decreased, while others are laid off. However for many that have not yet been affected, they continue to blindly ignore the signs and live in their perceived world of content and optimism.

However, the collapse of the society as we know it is not such a bad thing. Yes, you did hear me correctly. The collapse of our society is not only a good thing, but will in the end bring hundreds of thousands back into a sense of a true reality and will reunite them back with God.

Most of us have lived in a world and society of such wealth and gluttony that many in America have lost their connection with God. At least they have forgotten, or never understood that there really is a supreme being that is capable of controlling everything in life.

The world as we know it, at least for most of us reading this article is a world of such self-centerdness, greed, horror, and pride that it is a world that more closely resembles hell than heaven.

I have pondered what it would take to open the eyes of those around me to see just how “wrong” our culture is and how far we have strayed from the goodness of the earlier society. I have come to the conclusion that the only thing, save God’s direct intercession, would be a total collapse of our society and for individuals to experience true hardship.

And what I mean by true hardship is not one of mere pride as relying on food stamps or unemployment wages, but one where there really isn’t any food or water, nor shelter, and a lack of clothing.

Most people have never endured real hardship; they have never had a true inability to provide for their and their family’s basic needs. They had never been in a circumstance where there wasn’t anyone to turn to, no one who could help, but God himself.

It is so easy to forget as Christians that this world is not the end all. This world is only a stepping stone, a “boot camp,” a formation to prepare us for the eternal world. If we fail to grow, if we fail to be formed here, if we fail to grow in union with God and his ways… then we fail completely and have earned our way into hell.

Yes HELL!

We don’t hear that word often do we, HELL. And I blame the Bishops, Priests, and Deacons for their decades of neglect in regard to teaching the seriousness of our choices in life and the endless repercussions for those unrepentant choices.

I am aware that God’s mercy is great and that he wants all of us to repent and come to him… But let’s face it, very few have separated from their sinful ways and turned to God. So if they haven't done the 180 and turned toward God, who then are they walking toward? Lucifer!

I do not wish harm to anyone, especially my family and friends, I love them, yet so many are in great need of awakening. As I speak the truth, and God help me in doing so, I will either be disregarded as a nut, or stir anger for the “Feel Good – Its all Good” generation, but hopefully for some I will help open their eyes to what is about to occur in our nation.

Yes, we should begin to get our houses in order. We should begin to prepare with food and supplies, a survival plan, and develop a network of like-minded individuals for support. It is not deciding if this collapse will happen, but when, and we should be prepared. But most importantly, we are to prepare our minds and our souls for this journey. Beginning with our soul, start with weekly confession. If possible begin with daily communion and read the scriptures. A daily rosary will build the relationship with our holy mother who always intercedes and leads us to her son.

Money will eventually be of little value, friendships will be tested, and resources dwindled until what we are left with are our own God-gifted abilities and those of our friends, and ultimately what God chooses to provide for us. The outcome will ultimately be of God’s choosing.

The best weapon against societal collapse is the spiritual preparation and training that will empower individuals and families to endure and overcome adversity. It really will come to a battle between Good and Evil and the ultimate end will be judged more by your spiritual state in life than by worldly wealth, position, and status.

God’s ways are not our ways and we are about to be pruned and given the opportunity to make our eternal choice….. Are you ready?

The Contraception Deception

There has been a well orchestrated deception about life, love, and commitment. This deception has so permeated our culture that everyone has been affected by it. Click on the link to hear the truth about "The Contraception Deception."



My Dad!

Happy Father's Day Dad!

I am eternally thankful for all you sacrificed for us and for teaching us the Faith..... You are forever my hero and I only hope I can be 1/2 the man that you were here on earth.

A Man With A Hidden Mission!

This is my friend Cyrus who is now in Heaven.

Cyrus became known to me a few years ago when he walked into the hall at the Catholic church and entered a class for people interested in becoming Catholic. He didn't look like the typical man wanting to know more about the faith. He had long hair, seemed to be somewhat wild, and smelled of alcohol. But as we went around the room and each individual shared a little about themselves and why they were there, that was when I knew there was something very special about this man.

Cyrus stated that he had not been living a very good life, that he was a musician and a drunk, and that he recently had a vision from Mother Mary. He stated that Mary appeared to him and told him that he needed to make some changes and that there was a greater purpose for him. He stated that the vision was so profound he knew it wasn't a dream, but real.  He further stated that he didn't know anything about faith or religion but knew that Mary was "Catholic" so he needed to go to the Catholic church. 

That night was the beginning of my relationship with Cyrus and also his introduction with the Catholic faith. Each week for the next year, Cyrus would show up for class, often smelling of alcohol. It was evident to everyone that he had an addiction, and he would be the first to point out what a failure in life he was. Yes, most people would of called him a bum, but there was something so very special about him.... It was his humility. He never asked for anything, never gave an excuse, and was always so thankful for even a kind word. He had such deep and profound questions about Mary, God, Heaven, the Saints......

It wasn't long and Cyrus completed his studies and entered the catholic church at the Easter Vigil. His parents later told me at his funeral that the only thing in life Cyrus ever completed was the RCIA program and becoming Catholic.

As Cyrus joined the Catholic family at Our Lady of Mercy Church, he still remained an alcoholic, but he would be seen at Mass from time to time, and was a regular attendee at the Good Friday Stations of the Cross - walking across town carrying the cross. Anyone who met Cyrus immediately saw beneath the outer shell and could see his holiness. Yes, he was a sinner, a drunk, and you couldn't miss seeing his sin, but he was humble, he never tried to hide his sin, he just picked up his cross and carried it with him everyday trying to be the best person he could.

His presence affected others. Here was a young man, handsome, and talented, but wounded and debilitated by an addiction, a disease. Yes, he had so much potential, but he couldn't think past just getting through the day. You wanted to help this man...... Yet, he never asked for help. He knew he didn't amount to anything in this world, he was a loser, he was a drain on society, a drunk. He often looked sad and eyes often fixed with a downward gaze. 

Yet - People liked him..... There was something about him that was so real and true. I can remember a lady in the confessional line at church say that she was standing in line next to Cyrus and that as they waited their turn he openly shared his struggles with her. She commented  "He openly shared his struggles with me with such humility. I remember thinking if I could have the same convictions of my failings and love and submission to Jesus as Cyrus, I would be Blessed. He inspired me.”

I also recall a very proud man saying with tears in his eyes "We all could see his sin, but we all have sins, ours are just hidden. Cyrus was the most humble man I ever  knew..... If I could only be as humble as Cyrus."

He didn't even realize that he had touched so many people in very profound ways.

At his funeral, the church was packed... Not with an abundance of childhood friends of relatives, there were less than 10 of them, but with people from Our Lady of Mercy Parish. These new friends were as young as toddlers and many senior citizens, and every age in between. This young man, what society would of called "useless," and forgotten by many, had a special mission in life. He was an instrument in God's hands, that through the public appearance of his struggle, and the purity of his heart and sincere desire to be a Christian, and the extreme effort it took  to become Catholic, he was an authentic witness, a saintly witness, of perseverance, humility, love, forgiveness, and honor to so many around him.

Cyrus died at the age of 31...... yet his mission was fulfilled and he converted and inspired many souls here on earth. Thank you Cyrus for teaching us so much..... Your pain is now gone. We love you!

Tommy Shamrock Annual Bike Ride

The Kearns Clan and others met in Lincoln, CA. on April 2, 2011 for a spectacular 45 mile bike ride through rolling hills, country roads, and beautiful scenery. 

The group had a blast while climbing over 2 thousand feet and then soaring at speeds of 40 miles per hour down the curving country roads.

The Tommy Shamrock Riding Club was initially started in Honor of Thomas Kearns and has grown from his 6 boys to numerous participants.....

Peaceful Protest At The Local Abortion Mill (Clinic)

40 Days For Life......Ash Wednesday thru Easter

Go Girls!

My Son Sean's Car

The view as you drive by.

A powerful message by Teenagers.

A Prayerful Message

It is really all about life.

Saint Patrick's Day Weekend

Liz and I drove to the City to Celebrate in an Irish Pub.

But there was a long line to get in....

Luckily My Brother Kevin was already inside and had saved us seats.

The Pub was packed.

There was great Irish Music.

A bit noisy...

Liz and I were having a great time.

And then my brother Tim and Angela showed up.

Three Irish Brothers on Saint Pat's Day!

Then we walked across the street to the Celtic Shop.

Where we met two new friends (Patrick and Patrick). 

The tall Patrick said it was his birthday and he was in the store buying a rosary. As we visited, we found out that he is a P.E. teacher at a catholic school. I was able to bless his rosary that he just bought and gave him a special birthday blessing. When the 6'9'' man began to cry, we all felt it! He then stated "This is going to be a great night!"

We thanked the store owner for the Irish hats.

Handsome

We then drove back to Kev's place to eat and have some wine.

Checking the bottle against the inventory list......Hey that is one of the really expensive wines!

Quick get two more....

What an Irishman.

Full of Blarney!

After a good night's sleep, I took Liz to the Cliff House in San Francisco. 

We had dinner here 18 years ago when we were first married.

It is a really nice place.

With a great view.

What a great adventure and time with my wife and brothers.

Happy Saint Pat's Day Everyone!

Dad and Kids "Playday"

All too often Dads focus their time on being the provider, which is honorable, but there is so much more to Fatherhood.

The Father's kids usually desire the Father's time more than anything......

Keep Holy the Sabbath!

Sundays are for family fun!

The Family Mission Project

My Favorite Time Of Year - Christmastime

Our Parish Christmas Card 
(Photo by Mackenzie Kearns)

For so many, Thanksgiving is such a special time of year, probably because of families uniting and for giving thanks for all the blessings and comforts of our lives.

But for me, I truly love Christmas Time. I stay clear of the buying and shopping frenzies, but take the time to slow down, visit more with friends and family, to do simple acts of kindness for others, and reflect on the gift from our Father, the gift of Jesus.

We are about to begin Advent, this is a time of preparation.

Preparation for what?

Not preparing for a reenactment of Christ's birth, the birth we do honor and remember, but  a time for preparing for his return.

When Jesus does chose to return, his second coming, that will be it.......

I often reflect on if that day was to be today, am I ready? Did I live my life today as if today I would meet Jesus, and would I feel comfortable with my actions presenting them to our Lord? I then think about my past week, month, and even year. I question myself in regard to; am I living a life that that I would be proud to present to Christ.

Our whole life should be a preparation for that physical encounter with Christ. But, all so often we slowly veer off track, and at times, more off track than others. However, Christmastime is a beautiful season to straighten our life course.

So, enjoy the beautiful music, the festivities, and family and friends, but make it a point to daily reflect on your actions, your friendships, your passions, and your current state in life. Are you ready to stand before Christ and present yourself....... Will He say "Welcome, my good and faithful servant, come stay with me for all eternity?"

For some, this is a perfect time to start anew, for others, it is a time for a small self tune-up.

Merry Christmas

A "Family" Baptism

Baptism "Fast-Motion"

I was asked to Baptize the daughter (Sandra Bernadette Drewsen) of our close friends tonight.

We gathered around the font.

30 or so close friends made this a small and personal experience.

Then the important words, "I baptize you in the name of the Father, in the name of the Son, and in the name of the Holy Spirit."

Joseph, the baby's brother helped serve tonight.

And the God Parents, AJ and Elyse are also siblings to the baby.

.....and the newest member of the parish, and maybe of the whole Catholic Church at only "5 days Old."

What a beautiful little girl.

They Grow Up So Fast

It seems just like a few years ago that our kids looked like this.

In reality it was just a few years ago, but in those young years they grow, change, and mature so quickly.

 

Our children, your children, are such blessings in our lives.

I often think about how we raised our children, our triumphs, and our failings. I can't help but think that Liz and I aren't much different than many of you. We tried our best, did many things right, but in hindsight, would of done many other things differently.

I only hope and pray that if we did accomplish one thing, it was to instill the love of God, and to teach at least a few tools that will help them along their journey through life, a journey toward holiness......

How a Wife Affects a Man.

I so often hear that after 50 years of marriage, and when the wife dies, something in the husband dies as well.

It is always a sad story and one can't help but feel at least some degree of the pain that must be experienced from the loss of the spouse.

A good wife, which there are so many, really does make the man.

What do I mean by this?

Well, most men of humble heart will agree, that no matter how successful a man might think he is, if he doesn't have that special person to share his life and efforts with, he is always left feeling incomplete.

A man has an innate need to feel like a provider and a protector. And although many women are capable of doing much for themselves, a good wife will allow that man to take and maintain his role.

On the flip side, a wife who nourishes her husband, also reaps the benefits of a husband who feels fulfilled; she possesses a happy and healthy husband.

The wife who clearly identifies the role of the man and the role of a woman is also just as equally happy.

Why?

Because she then directs her attention and energies on being the nourisher, the caretaker, and the heart of the home and the family.

Yes, the man might provide the food, clothing, and the shelter for the family; but the wife is the one who makes the whole family feel united, loved, and peaceful.

Liz and I have only been married for ~20 years, but as each year comes and goes I become more cognisant of the power of her role as a wife and a mother. No, she doesn't talk like, nor look, nor act like a supper-mom, a soccer-mom, she is something so much greater. She would probably be more accurately described as a "traditional" mom, or a "stay at home" mom, but I see her as God's gift to our family.

The world we live in has so many great qualities and many wonderful people, but to not acknowledge that our world and society is a complete mess would be naive. If only more people, especially women understood life like my wife, not only would more men be much happier in their lives, but the world would look much different as well.

For all you men who have a wife similar to mine, let her know today just how special she really is; I bet she has no idea......

We had a great weekend - Thanks to Friends!

 

Timmy and Renee invited us up to their Parent's Place in the Mountains for the weekend.

We called it "The Cabin" but I guess you can't call it a cabin.

We had so much fun..... Thanks for sharing your gifts with us!